Day 18: Calling you out

Calling me out versus calling me in.

Today I was taught the difference between the two, which released an OMG-MIND-BLOWN reaction as I sat thinking about these words and what they meant.

Calling someone out means to bring attention to an aspect of one's personality in a way that places shame, where calling someone in creates a safe space to start a conversation for building a foundation for transformation.

It dawned on me that this is what being a coach is, we call people in!

Every powerful coaching session I've ever had has been because my coach called me in. I'm very grateful for this lesson and will be applying to all of my relationships moving forward!

 

 

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